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How a Retired Engineer Uses DIY Tech to Help Older Adults Age at Home | The AgeTech Podcast S4E27 with Frank Engelman

What if a simple iPhone could help your aging parent turn on the lights automatically when they get out of bed at night? In this episode, I chat with Frank Engelman, a retired Intel engineer who now builds brilliant DIY tech setups using off-the-shelf devices like iPhones, smart lights, and Alexa. 14 years past retirement, Frank is still coding, testing, and inventing tools that make aging at home easier. Whether you’re a caregiver, a professional in the aging space, or just someone trying to help Mom stay independent, Frank’s ideas will absolutely get your wheels turning.

Catch the full conversation on Youtube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or scroll down for the transcript (auto-generated, so pardon any oddities – the bots are still learning!)

Keren Etkin: Frank, welcome to the show!

Frank Engelman: Hi there. Thank you.

Keren Etkin: First of all, thank you so much for joining me today, and I always like to start by asking. My guests about their origin stories So what inspired you to start

Frank’s Easy Tech Corner and your YouTube channel Tech for seniors?

Frank Engelman: after I retired from Intel in 2011, writing these. Both. I have a webpage and a Substack and a YouTube channel, and I was interested in helping seniors because part of my work at In is it at Intel, was in the innovation center where, where, where we were focusing on smart devices for people, especially elders.

And so I really got involved in that and my sister. Is a retired nurse who lives in a, lives in a group, where they have a lot of questions about technology. And so I was answering a lot of questions for her to relay to them, and I got to thinking, well, I should put this out in a broader scope. So that’s why I started, um, writing all these articles and videos.

Keren Etkin: That is awesome, and I understand that your main goal is to focus on easy to set up solutions. And when I was like reading through your, your blog and, and watching some of the videos, I. I figured it’s easy enough. However, Frank is a retired engineer, so he’s more tech savvy than the average person. So I wonder like

what type do you

get from your, from your,

audience

on

how easy it actually is

Frank Engelman: Right,

I.

so my audience is really the family

helping the senior,

you know, setting this stuff up. not so much geared towards some of the websites I see they’re geared, or YouTube channels are geared towards, okay, you’re a senior, here’s how you can do this. You know, I’m more, this is for the. Age tech generation that needs a little more help than that.

So, I don’t really just do product reviews or app reviews. I do, here’s something out there that you could modify a little bit to make it easier for, for, for your parent. it’s funny because when I was getting ready for this, I had to go turn off a bunch of stuff here. Because I’m into having devices speak to you.

You know, speak the calendar, speak to reminders, speak to someone’s at the door, turn on lights, when it’s time when a physical light, when it, when it’s time for a pill, not just a little reminder on your phone, which you could easily miss. So. That’s sort of against the way most of the smartphones are.

They don’t want to be speaking to you all the time, but I want the opposite of that. So that’s what I focus on.

Keren Etkin: Absolutely, and basically. All of the solutions that you showcase are off the shelf products, iPhones, Alexa

devices, apple watches, stuff that’s readily

available. Anyone

can

go

to

Frank Engelman: Right, I.

Keren Etkin: Amazon and, and pick up these products. However you show how to set up like the hidden features that I. I Bet 99% of the people don’t even, it’s not just that people don’t know these features exist, but

they don’t even think to look for them. So how do you know about it?

Frank Engelman: Well, I actually use them myself. You know, I live with these things, like when I get an idea here, I’ll try it out for myself for about a month, before I even write anything up on it, to be sure on it. Like for right now, I’m concentrating on this way to make notifications speak, which Apple doesn’t provide a way to do that unless the phone is locked.

Now for some reason, they have an accessibility feature. If your phone is locked. It can speak notifications, but not if it’s unlocked. If you’re using it, then you go, why now? Why did they do that? You know? So it is kind of strange. Even though they have a great accessibility group, there’s some things they miss.

It would be so easy. So when I’m having to do is things like you can trigger. a shortcut, personal automation off of a, a, a sound. So I’m making a calendar event or a notification, make a sound, and then the phone can trigger off it and speak to you and say, oh, well it’s time to to take your morning walk, or whatever.

What I do a little more than that is, rather than just a little tiny notifications you get on a screen, I instead put a large notification up there that you have to dismiss. So you have to get up. And I’ve done things like, a couch potato alert that tells you it’s a chair sensor. If you don’t get up once an hour, it talks to you and also puts a light on, you know, to say you should get up.

So.

Keren Etkin: Wow.

Frank Engelman: This is all just used in standard

devices.

Keren Etkin: Yeah, I have a, I have the couch potato alert

on my watch. I’m gonna call it that from now on.

Frank Engelman: oh, you mean you don’t have mine, do you? No. You have the one that says it’s time to stand up.

Keren Etkin: Exactly, I have a, I have a

notification on, on my smartwatch from time to time.

Yeah,

it’s time to get up. You’ve been

sitting for too long. so

I’m gonna call it

Frank Engelman: Right.

Keren Etkin: Potato,

Frank Engelman: Yeah,

Keren Etkin: from now on.

It’s brilliant. so I wonder what is your. what

is like the biggest thing

that you learned from

doing this that surprised you?

Frank Engelman: (Alexa device speaking in the background: your emergency contact.)

I dunno if you heard that.

Keren Etkin: Is

That

Alexa

Frank Engelman: was, if you don’t get,

if you don’t, uh, check in once, once a day, there’s an app out there that will. text you. Okay. But of course you might miss it. You might even the text, you’ll miss a notification, but you might miss the text.

You’re, you walked in another room, so I, so I make it speak to you. I can even have it turn on a light for you and one for your family member who’s your contact. So let them know, Hey, you didn’t check in today. So

that’s the kind of stuff I add to standard apps that are out there. You know, I,

Keren Etkin: I read that one. You

just published it yesterday. It was

like

this

Snug

Frank Engelman: Yeah.

Keren Etkin: That one

Frank Engelman: Yeah.

Keren Etkin: brilliant solution. what is the, like the thing that you’ve learned that surprised you the most? Was there anything that you learned through this journey that was like counterintuitive for

you? an aha

moment?

Frank Engelman: No, it’s just that it’s very, it’s very hard to know what’s a good idea to work on, you know? ’cause as you’ve mentioned many times in your podcast, you don’t just wanna use the grandma. you know, well, my grandma needs this, you know, so it’s hard even with my sister who has a, a lot of people that she collects from, or things that I found on my own, ’cause I’m in my eighties and so I.

I need a lot of these things. You know, if you get a reminder on your phone, it’s time to take a pill. Well, I don’t wanna do it right now. Right? So, but if there’s a light that stays on, as I see across the room, there’s lights on and I know that I better go do it, and if I get near it. There’s a motion sensor says, remember, you gotta take your, your vitamin or whatever, you know.

So a lot of these things I use, I test them with, with my sister, the oth. The other things I do is like, I troll a lot of websites. Like both the tech websites like Reddit or the vendor websites like Apples Amazon, you know, echo. also ones like Facebook and Instagram, those groups on there where people are looking for, for solutions. I don’t have a better way to know if my, if my idea is gonna be good other than sort of put it out there and see what kind of feedback I get on it. And getting feedback is hard mo Most people, even if they like it, they don’t even tell you. You know, just, I’ve had this kind of direct contact with my sister’s friends.

They, they don’t get back to her, you know, and she has to ask them, you know, So

Keren Etkin: So your, your focus group they just, they get their questions answered and they

don’t provide feedback if it worked or not.

Is that correct?

Frank Engelman: Right. Yeah, so that’s, so that’s one of the problems I have. You get, I get a lot better feedback on the tech websites like Reddit, you know, get a lot of feedback there, get a lot of ideas there too.

One of the things that’s helped, that’s helped me a lot too is chat.

GPT

has been great providing do it yourself kinda solutions. They’re not always right, but it helps me get a different set of input by asking, you know, well, what’s out there that does this? And they’ll come up with some things. And so I found that helps. It also helps me with, coding too, because I I write iPhone apps too.

Keren Etkin: Brilliant.

So I wonder, first of all, what caused

you to create your own apps? I assume it was like an unmet need that you

encountered.

Frank Engelman: Yeah, a lot of the things I do are just using specific settings that people don’t know about that are buried under , accessibility, or shortcuts, you know, apple shortcuts. But there’s some things you can’t do. Like I was working on this one where. This person wanted a way to, when they’re out of the room and their iPhone gets a, a phone call, when they come back in the room, they want a light to be flashing, a physical light.

Okay. Well, with shortcuts you can’t, you can’t trigger off of that. But I can, if I write a app, and so I wrote that app where I can trigger off of it.

Keren Etkin: That’s brilliant. And then again, you use like an off the shelf, I assume, what is a volume sensor and an off the shelf

smart light

to make it work

Frank Engelman: Yeah. I use a smart light now the volume sensor, the app I wrote for the phone can actually detect it ringing. I. Okay, so it doesn’t have to listen. It actually APIs where it can know it’s ringing, and so I use that to trigger the smart light,

Keren Etkin: Brilliant. thing that I did also did not know about, but I learned through your blog is that iPhones can

actually detect specific sounds like the doorbell ringing and flash the lights,

Frank Engelman: Yeah, I’ve done, I’ve done that one for a person who needed that, you know, if they’re deaf. I also did one using sounds to record, how many times a day you cough. You know, if you’re worried about So

Keren Etkin: wow

Frank Engelman: it’s got a lot of capabilities. It’s a little flaky though, I’ll say.

It doesn’t always work.

Which is which, which is what I’m te so I don’t, for example, the sound detection one that I’m working on now for notifications, I’m, I’m gonna test it for a co for a couple more weeks to be sure it works. You know, it’s gotta be, it can’t fail a lot, you know what I mean? It could fail once in a while, but.

So that’s what I focus on, is I actually use this stuff myself too.

Keren Etkin: So what is the most underrated tool or app that

you have found and you would you wish more people would

know about or use?

Frank Engelman: I’d say look in the accessibility settings of your iPhone or iPad, that’s, that’s important. There’s a lot of hidden gems in there. And the other one is look into shortcuts, because you can do a lot with those. But you can make, you know, when I said you can’t make, you can’t make your phone speak. apple will only only allow the iPhone to speak notifications when, when it’s locked, but you can.

Make, messages and incoming emails speak using shortcuts, which is a way around that limitation. So there’s a lot that you can do with that. So if you look, when I think about my articles, a lot of them are based on that settings in using shortcuts or specialty apps that I and others have written to do things.

Keren Etkin: That’s awesome. I wonder you mentioned it on your, on your blog that you try to also find

solutions that work without wifi or even an

internet connection. what are some examples

Frank Engelman: tough one.

Keren Etkin: solutions that, that don’t do that.

’cause ev almost everything requires a wifi these

days

Frank Engelman: It does,

and the vendors could do a better job of this because there are.

Bluetooth smart plugs that you can use, that you can set ’em up with Bluetooth, but they can actually operate on Bluetooth. But the problem is the vendor also expected there to be wifi there for their app to work. So it makes a little tough.

I have found several standalone things like I’ve got. Motion sensors that can talk to a smart bulb without any wifi. You know, they’re just direct. connection through R through rf, and I’ve done buttons too. there’s even one that has a turn knob that you can adjust the brightness. So I do a lot of that kind of thing where I’m trying to think of the person who doesn’t have anything, you know, and, and my new focus is going to be on, I just have a iPhone.

That’s all I have. I don’t want any, I don’t want any other device. Apple with their home app, they want you to have a Apple TV or a home, A home pod mini, but you can do a lot with just your iPhone and shortcuts. And so I’m gonna show how you can do some limited smart home controls with just that.

Keren Etkin: Smart Home controls with just an

iPhone.

Frank Engelman: Yeah.

Keren Etkin: Wow.

So, we, I mean, you do need at least smart plugs or smart

light

bulbs

in

smart

Frank Engelman: Well, yeah, well, of course. Yeah, whatever you wanna,

excuse me. Turn on like a smart bulb

or a smart plug. Right. So the trick is that if you’ve ever looked at, apple shortcuts, if you’ve ever looked into actions, a lot of the vendors like TP Link and others will actually have a shortcut action for their devices.

Which is something that not a lot of people know about. It’s sort of a hidden feature. with a iPhone that you can turn on a TP or Casa Smart plug, you know,

Keren Etkin: So is there, did, is there anything that you tried to do but you simply couldn’t find easy enough solution using existing off the shelf product? I mean, are there any types of challenges that you were asked to solve?

That you able to, and you’d say, okay,

we can’t do this today, current technology doesn’t allow it.

Frank Engelman: I’d say because of, you know,

yeah, exactly. Because when you work with Apple, they’re, they’re very big into security, and so when I did this one for the. flashing a light when a phone call comes in. Well, I’d like to be able to, they, they wanna know the difference between, is it from one of my contacts or is it not, you know, just a general thing.

So you could change the light color. I can’t find APIs to do that. another one is they wanna differentiate between it rang and it left a voicemail. I can’t do that either. You know? So these, so these are the things the vendor has to solve, you know, that I don’t have access to.

Keren Etkin: So if we

have

anyone

from Apple watching us…

Frank Engelman: And there’s a lot of things I wish they would,

there’s, there’s a lot of things I wish they do too. You know, they have, they have this, they have this accessibility group and they have special settings for things, but the problem is on, on their general apps like mail. They have tiny little icons that my 80, that my 98-year-old aunt cannot see.

And, and they make ’em like a light blue, you know, and she has to take a magnifying glass and that kind of thing. And, and they need just a setting. I want accessibility mode. The clo the closest thing they came out with. assistive access, which I don’t know if you’ve seen my, you’ve seen my article on this.

It turns a smartphone into just, it’s got like maybe four to six big icons on there that you can tap on to, to make it like, almost like a old flip phone, which is big icons. Well, they didn’t do all the apps, like they didn’t do mail for example yet, you know, so hopefully they’ll do that.

Keren Etkin: I think that’s one area in which Android actually is better because you can just download like a big button

launcher from the,

the app store, the Google

store, and you’re done

Yeah,

Frank Engelman: but I’ve chosen to go with Apple and Amazon here. ’cause I.

That seems to be what most of the people I, I talk to want, you know, so.

Keren Etkin: so

what are your favorite DIY solutions that you came up with

that are most useful or more, more, most fun to use?

Frank Engelman: I’d say the lighting, when it’s a reminder to do something, the speaking, the reminders and. Having to, press a button to say, I did it. You know, so, and then you can, I have, family that checks on these, you know, I have other accounts so I can see what it looks like from the, from the other side too, so, so I can track how they’re doing.

things like guided lighting at night when, when you get outta bed to light the pathway to the bathroom and turn on the lights in the bathroom at a, at a lesser level at night, so, so that you don’t get blinded. So those are probably the things I use the most too myself. So.

Keren Etkin: that is brilliant. I love the guided path. I wonder, I’m sure that some people watching us are wondering about the affordability of setting your entire home with smart lights and getting all these Alexa devices, which I assume you have multiple Alexa devices and getting an iPhone and

getting iPads and the Apple Watch, what is some

advice that you

have

for

Frank Engelman: Yeah.

Keren Etkin: who want to get to make their home smart?

They, they are reading through your

blog. They’re inspired, they wanna do it, but they’re not gonna spend

thousands of dollars on it

right now

Frank Engelman: right

Sure.

Well, if they already have an iPhone, they got a good start. So I would say what they might wanna do with that is look at, the way I have a turning on smart lights, you know, I would start with lights like, for example. you, you, could do, you know, like your outside porch light or whatever. It’s nice to have that automated so you don’t leave it on or you forget to turn it on and all that. So you could do that simple kind of automation just with, shortcuts and personal automation on your smartphone. So I would start with that kinda lighting. I’d start with, um. any other time, time of day lighting, when you put on the bed, the bedroom lights, when it’s time to encourage you to go to bed.

So that kind of thing. If you wanna do any more than that, like you want motion sensing lightings or contact closures, then you need to get something like a. Apple TV or, or a, or a HomePod Mini where you can write, more complex automations. And I think you’ve given me an idea here. I think I wanna more write an article just starting fresh.

What’s the simplest thing that I can do, to have some smart home features?

Keren Etkin: Yeah

Frank Engelman: of course we get more talking texts there. I don’t know if you heard that one, but, what was I saying? Oh, you can speak to shortcuts too. So if you say the name of the shortcut, if it’ll operate, you know, if you do one of these smart home lights or smart plug, you can say its name and it’ll turn it on.

Keren Etkin: So

Frank Engelman: there’s a lot you can do.

So I think I’m gonna write a getting started article here. Thank you for the idea.

Keren Etkin: is the basic thing people

need? Because they need,

they need

some

device to set everything up and maybe a device that can speak and

some lights.

So

what

is the most affordable way to get started?

Frank Engelman: Yeah, well you where your phone can speak for sure.

Keren Etkin: So that was, actually my last question Before we wrap up, is there anything that we didn’t talk about that you would like to add? Any call to action to our

viewers or listeners?

Frank Engelman: Well, you know what I wish there was out there is, you know, I look at all the, at the work that AARP has done with helping tech startups, you know, they’re doing all, they do a lot of handholding even, right? But what they don’t seem to do is promote. Something like what I’m doing to tell people how to do it themselves.

Not just how to this product that’ll come down the line help, help, help and develop that. But here’s what you can do today yourself, or you can you can do for your mom. I wish they would do that. Like one, like one I’m working on now. I don’t know if many people know about this, but you know, with an Apple calendar, if your mom had one.

You. She, she can share that with you and you can from your side, add things to her calendar. Or see what she’s put on there. And what’s nice is you see it on your calendar and then you know, oh, I gotta take her to the doctor today. You know, there’s things like that. My next step is making it speak for her to kind of remind her and, you know, say it several times and make her confirm it, you know, so.

I just wish there was something out there that would promote this more than me trying to do it like I’m doing here. That they would take these ideas or start their own group of ideas, but have this focus for family members who wanna help their their elder.

Keren Etkin: Brilliant. That is a, that is a great call to action. And yeah, I, I just more people knew that they. Could actually do a lot of this stuff relatively easily and that, like you said, there’s so much hidden under the accessibility features that people could really use on a daily basis, but they just have no idea.

That it exists. So thank you so much for for creating your blog and your channel to tell people about it and, and explain to people how to do it. I learned a lot of

new stuff from watching your channel and from reading your blog, so thank you for

that.

Frank Engelman: Thank you.

Keren Etkin: and Thank you.

for joining me on the show today, Frank.

It was an absolute pleasure chatting with you.


Link to Frank’s youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Technology4Seniors

Link to Frank’s blog: https://frankseasytechcorner.substack.com/


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